tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6329600504016968888.post542759672743593864..comments2024-03-29T09:20:16.581-05:00Comments on Pastoral Meanderings: The dead and the bereaved deserve more than a celebration of life...Pastor Petershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10653554256101480140noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6329600504016968888.post-82094812660308191462013-12-11T20:02:59.142-06:002013-12-11T20:02:59.142-06:00I have always felt uncomfortable when I go to a fu...I have always felt uncomfortable when I go to a funeral that's billed a "Celebration of Life." It shouldn't be 100% about the person (narcism) but about HIM (Jesus). A minister conducting the service really doesn't need to know the person at all because the message shouldn't be about him. Thank you for writing/sharing this!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6329600504016968888.post-11954199066331511372013-12-08T02:18:02.794-06:002013-12-08T02:18:02.794-06:00The best funeral sermons I have heard are those th...The best funeral sermons I have heard are those that are properly divided between Law and Gospel. Mustn't we first hear that the wages of sin is death - eternal death, and that we are all sinners? Then, with the proclamation of the saving Gospel we can celebrate the deceased's confession of faith during his life that assures that he has, indeed fallen asleep in The Lord. The thoughts of an old layman. <br /><br />The older I get, the more I believe that a funeral is the best opportunity any pastor gets for evangelism. Johnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07186384126211612393noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6329600504016968888.post-84825339119135502322013-12-07T09:35:20.452-06:002013-12-07T09:35:20.452-06:00His view is mostly correct.
Although I have real ...His view is mostly correct.<br /><br />Although I have real problems with pastors who intone "we need to face the reality of death." Though I don't think this author goes as far as some in insisting that death play center stage.<br /><br />The fact is that the Bible itself often uses "euphemisms" for "death" such as "fallen asleep." The Bible does not do this out of sappy sentimentality or a fuzzy vision of the deceased having now reached to spiritual release from the body. It does this because, for the believer, our death occurred at baptism when we died and were buried with Christ and raised with Him to new life. <br /><br />So, while death must be confronted as a present reality of the effects of sin, at the same time, the funeral also needs to emphasize that because of the cross and baptism, death for the believer is fundamentally altered. So I do encourage the family to use certain biblical euphemisms such as "fallen asleep" and "gone to be with his Lord" in order to get across the biblical concept that death for the Christians is, in fact, a temporary state and no longer truly death.<br /><br />In answering some modern misconceptions we have to be careful we do not wander to the opposite extreme and step outside of the biblical language.Mathewnoreply@blogger.com