I have served as Pastor to two congregations -- one north of NYC for nearly 13 years and here nearly 17 years. Neither congregation was liturgical prior to my arrival. Neither congregation had a weekly Eucharist. Neither congregation was especially Lutheran or even fond of the name and heritage of Lutheranism. I could have simply changed things right away (to a weekly Eucharist or a fuller liturgical expression). I did not do that. It is not because I was wise. Others before me had led these congregations away from the liturgy and encouraged them to be content with a monthly celebration of the Lord's Supper. The last thing I want was for them to change to suit me. If I believed that where I was leading the congregation was the right direction, I could not afford to have this understood as what "Pastor wanted or liked..." It had to part of the very identity of these congregations -- how they understood Lutheranism and how they saw themselves as a Lutheran congregation -- for these to stick.
For years I preached about the Eucharist until people in both places said to me, "If you point to the altar one more time and there is nothing there, I think I am going to scream. Why can we talk about the Sacrament but we cannot have the Sacrament?" I did not radically change what the people did, but they saw in my pastoral leadership the reverence, joy, and comfort in the liturgy. I taught them the Catechism and Confessions. And it came... not in my time but it came... and it has stood the test of time... in both places...
Even when what I want or like is the right thing, what I want or like does not matter. That is true of the Pastor who shepherds the flock of God and it is true for any sheep within that flock. We as Lutherans are not liturgical or Eucharistic because that is what we want or like. We are not liturgical or Eucharistic because we think it appeals to people. We are liturgical and Eucharistic because that is who we are. Period.
I welcome those surveys that suggest that young people are interested in liturgy. But that is not why we are liturgical -- we do not use the liturgy to appeal to these young people or to anyone else. The liturgy is what we have been given by those who went before us, it is rooted in Judaism and the Synagogue and in the Upper Room. The Western Rite was not the concoction of a Pastor trying to appeal to people but the wisdom of the Church through the ages of how to set Scripture to verse and song within the twin peaks of Word and Sacrament. It is what identifies us with those who went before us and it is the domain of the Lord and His gifts (hence Divine Service).
Even when people want and like the right thing, that is NOT why we do it. Because it is not about wants or likes -- it is about worship that is faithful to our confession and confession which is lived out in our worship. It is about identity -- Word and Sacrament, Law and Gospel, Catholic and Evangelical. It is about faithful providing the pattern which embodies the means of grace (both Word and Sacrament) within a framework of Scripture (explicit and paraphrased) that is not Lutheran but catholic and the proper possession of all churches (even though few acknowledge or see the blessing in this treasure).
In order for these two congregations to be liturgical and Eucharistic after I am gone, it has to be part of their understanding and identity. We have got to stop talking about wants and likes (even when they are right on) and we have got to begin talking about faithfulness and confession. We don't pick hymns on the basis of wants or likes but based upon the lectionary so that these hymns become an integral part of the whole of the liturgy. We don't pick choir anthems on the basis of what we like or want but on the basis of the place of the texts and tunes as one piece of the liturgical whole. We don't preach what we want or like but what the lectionary provides us so that the people in the pew get a complete diet of the Word of God and not our own personal preacher favorites. What we do on Sunday morning is not the dictate of desire or feeling or appeal -- it is rooted in Scripture, expressed in our Confessional identity, consistent with catholic tradition, and true to the Gospel of Jesus Christ. Anything less than this and there is little room to justify whose wants or likes are better or worse than others except taste -- and what happens on Sunday morning is not driven by personal taste, not even mine.