Tuesday, May 11, 2010
A Changing Question
But it seems the aging sex goddess Raquel Welch has raised the red flag to say all that we have seen is not good and in fact it is preventing what we desire most underneath and what is in the best interest of society as a whole -- a stable, loving, caring marriage in which children are conceived and nurtured in this love. She blames at least some of it on the promise (a false one) of safe sex divorced from responsibility, commitment, and love. She complains that "nobody can keep it in their pants," and why not? With sexual pleasure the highest of goals, with more and more folks of all ages hooking up and cohabiting, with fewer and fewer children born, with the news filled with the sexual escapades of societies political and sports heroes, with cheap and reliable means of preventing pregnancy and disease... and with fewer and fewer people offering any compelling reason why not to give in to desire... we are left with dealing with the effects of our self-indulgence.
In the face of this, there are churches that haul out the chancel furniture (so to speak) in order to put a bed on display and then have a series of sermons on "how to" make sex better (I wonder what texts in Scripture are butchered in pursuit of proofs for these theses). In the face of this, there are churches fearing that if they get too far behind the learning curve of society they will be irrelevant and so they work to incorporate the changing views of culture into the fabric of the faith as quickly as possible (witness the haste in adapting to gay and lesbian marriage and homosexual clergy with their accompanying rites and blessings).
Nevertheless, I am encouraged when people who were poster children for the early days of the sexual revolution sit up and take notice of where this road has led us. Giving into desire was the first path of sin and still is the path to our destruction. Not every desire is good, not all that is possible is beneficial, and the path of Christian life is one of self-control and not self-realization or freedom. We have used what technology has provided us and turned this into the toxic drug the dark alley that feeds our insatiable desire yet never delivers to us what we want and need most -- love, acceptance, companionship, caring, friendship, honesty, fidelity, and family. For these, the Creator's wisdom is still the right answer. And the Church dare not abandon this truth for the sake of the changing whims of self-indulgence that parade as freedom when they are but license to self-destruction...
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Good on Raquel. It's truly encouraging to see former 'gods and goddesses' realizing and speaking about the lie of 'good sex' outside of God's boundaries.
Now, how to get young people and MANY MORE OLDER ONES to see the truth and act on it?
It is a good sign if Raquel Welsh has awoken to the false message that she has spread for so very long. Perhaps she will be instrumental in helping a few more of the Hollywood crowd to see their errors (we can at least hope!).
Ok, first of all I'm going to say this. I've certainly let my eyes and ears wander many times. But, we know that is our human nature as being sinners. It's how we choose to react and our choices we make in these these situations when faced with them. Do we follow God's law, or our own law? Keeping God and his word in front is our defense. Turning our focus back the God's first commandment. Who are we worshiping???
That being said....How much worse can social acceptance get?? Is ANYTHING sacred anymore? Sex is just the start. Back up 20-30 years ago - sure, we all know what went on, but was it really socially acceptable to admit or speak about it?
Today....ANYTHING goes! It's even down to the music that's produced. Go back the even the
40's and 50's. Ok, they may have hinted or suggested one's feeling they wish to act upon in song, but TODAY..... We just spell it right out. I can't tell you how many time I've been driving in the car with my teenager and friends and I have to admit... getting "jiggy" with it and tapping out the song on the steering wheel or cranking up the bass. But then, one you get passed the intriguing tune you ears start to say "WHAT????" What did they just say?
And we wonder why kids and adults feel so casual about anything in relation to this.
How much worse can this get? I'm serious. We, as the world created this mess. How do we clean it up?
Can we have some some self pride, self control and just plain respect? Obviously, God isn't respected in ANY of this. But, when we teach kids that everthing is socially acceptable - there's nothing to respect. It's all fair game! And we wonder why no one has any respect for God. Even though in a Christian's eyes, it working backwards here......But, come one. You have to be able to respect yourself (as we should as ourselves/bodies/lives are a gift from God) to even be able grasp the concept of RESPECT.
Where did we lose it? Walk into any mall or social setting. Just listen..... It's just amazing what is socially acceptable.
Just more challenges God gives us. And as always, we are going to need his help.
We don't even have to go back 100 years to as we mostly feel was "extreme" at that time. But, I'll take 10 years back!
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